**I recently watched the movie Julie & Julia. So not only do I have a desire to cook/bake more I am also feeling compelled to update my blog much more often**
At the end of last month, I had an opportunity to speak at a church during their Monday evening mass. My housemate, Sheila, and I both shared stories of our time as FVMs at St. Francis Inn. I don’t mind public speaking but for some reason I get more nervous when speaking in a church…so I over prepared. I wrote out nearly my whole speech. Once I starting speaking however, I was able to relax and I just used my written speech as a guideline. Since I wrote it all out though I figured I’d share a version of it with all of you!
Check it out!
After a year and half at St. Francis Inn I can honestly say I’m a changed person from when I first came to the Inn. I’ve grown up a lot. My faith has been tested—and it has grown stronger. I’ve learned to love in an entirely new way and I’ve been able to find joy and beauty in even the most depressing situations. I’ve been challenged, been brought to tears and laughed without reservation.
In short, it has been an amazing year and a half.
There are many things I love about working at St. Francis Inn but at the top of that list has to be the relationships that I have made—with my housemates, the St. Francis Inn community, and our guests.
Perhaps the most surprising of these relationships have been the ones I’ve formed with our guests. I never thought I would care so deeply for the people I get to serve.
I know some guests better than others and there are some that I have grown very attached to. With these guests, their triumphs can become my triumphs, their losses my losses, their heartaches my heartaches and their joys my joys. It’s not hard to form these kinds of attachments when so many of our guests seem so willing to pour out their hearts and are so desperately seeking for someone to talk to. I’ve spent many days and nights—long after work at the Inn is through—thinking about, frustrated with and praying for many of our guests.
There is one guest who comes to mind. His name is Danny—I’m not actually sure what his last name is. Danny is an addict. A very severe addict. Alcohol is his drug of choice but it’s not his only addiction.
Danny drives me crazy. He’s made an impact on my life like no one else. He frustrates me, depresses me and fills me with joy. All of these feelings are dependent on his sobriety.
Danny has to have more lives than anyone I’ve ever met before. There have been countless days where we’ve seen Danny bloody and bruised, covered in his own filth—each time I think it’s going to be the last time I will see him. This image of Danny—alone, pathetic and hopeless is the way he is most of the time.
There is a different Danny though. A sober one. He can be funny, kind and honest. He can remember names and conversations. He can stand without holding on to the wall. This Danny is how I wish he could always be but his sobriety never seems to last more than a couple months.
This brutal cycle of near death to sober living is exhausting to watch. The one question I am so eager to ask God is what his plan for Danny is. Why put one man through so much? Why not give Danny the strength to get and stay clean?
One evening I was sharing this question with Judy, a lay volunteer in the St. Francis Inn community, and her response is something I’ve thought about nearly everyday since. She said that maybe God’s plan for Danny isn’t about Danny at all. Maybe God’s plan for him is about us.
That’s something I can’t stop thinking about. Maybe God is trying my patience or testing my love. I’m not quite sure yet but I’m eager to find out.
Sometimes I am in disbelief that this is actually my life. I thank God for the blessings he has given me. The beauty he has allowed me to find in even the most desolate of conditions is truly breathtaking.
I’ve become attached—to a place and more importantly to people who were once strangers.
There you have it!
**I’m happy to announce that since I spoke these words Danny has nearly 30 days sober! He came by to visit last week and he looks great!**